10 Warning Signs a Senior Relative Need Assistance

Family Caregiving | October 01, 2009 | by Sean McBride

Families Urged to Keep Alert for Signs Seniors Need Help

Watching your once active parents or other relative decline into someone who needs constant care is heartbreaking and overwhelming. But with 36 million seniors living in the U.S. and the elderly population projected to double, caring for a senior loved one is a reality most people will face.  That’s why Senior Helpers, a leading provider of in home senior care, advises family members to learn the signs your senior relative needs assistance.

It’s much better to arrange for help for an elderly family member while they can still be part of the process rather than during a crisis because it gives everyone time to make thoughtful decisions,” says Peter Ross, CEO and founder of Senior Helpers.  “Seniors often believe getting help means being moved out of their house and that’s where the resistance to any kind of help comes in.  But many times in home care is a better option.”

Senior Helpers’ elderly care experts remind people to respect a senior family member’s pride and dignity when discussing the need for assistance.  Approach the topic with respect and understanding and express concern for the family member’s safety.  The warning signs could be an indication of many issues so if there is a concern it is important to contact a doctor.

10 Warning Signs a Senior Relative Need Assistance

  • The house is cold, the telephone is cut off.
  • Losing track in a conversation, forgetting the names of children, grandchildren, the day of the week, etc.
  • The death of a spouse.
  • The refrigerator and cupboards are half empty even though you know the relative can still get out.
  • Personal hygiene is poor.
  • Constantly making excuses when asked to go somewhere or do something, or wanting to be alone.
  • Sudden weight loss.
  • Never cleaning or delaying home repairs.
  • Failure to take prescribed medications.
  • Behavior changes.

“The best way to keep track of a senior family members situation is to keep in touch with them and this is one time where being nosy is justified,” says Ross. “Visit or call often and use one of the warning signs as a way to approach the topic if needed.”

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  • Warnings Signs - 4 Key Areas

    PHYSICAL CHANGES

    o Has s/he been diagnosed with any chronic diseases such as diabetes, Multiple Sclerosis, Parkinson’s, etc.?

    o Has a recent injury or surgery temporarily impaired his/her ability to take care of him or herself?

    o Is s/he at risk of falling on the stairs? Have there been recent falls?

    o Has there been recent weight loss?

    o Is his/her hearing or vision affecting his/her ability to function?

    o Is s/he able to cook for him or herself?

    o Are there bruises on the arms from bumping into things, or burns on the skin from cooking?

    o Does s/he need assistance getting out of bed or a chair?

    o Does s/he need help walking?

    o Does s/he need help getting to and from the bathroom?

    o Does s/he need help with bathing, dressing or grooming?

    o Is s/he eating poorly or having trouble making nutritious meals?

    o Are his/her teeth in good repair? Is there chronic bad breath?

    o Does s/he have problems sleeping?

    o Is s/he unable to do grocery shopping and errands alone?




    MEDICATIONS

    o Are medications being missed and/or prescriptions not being refilled?

    o Are pills left over or running out too soon?

    SOCIAL CONTACT

    o Has s/he stopped attending church or social activities?

    o Has contact with friends and family changed dramatically?

    o Has s/he undergone a recent emotional or medical crisis?

    o Is s/he content to just sit in a chair, not reading or returning phone calls?

    PERSONAL HABITS

    o Has there been a change in personal hygiene, dress or appearance? Does s/he bathe less often or not want to bathe at all?

    o Are dirty clothes put back in the closet without being washed?

    o Is routine household cleaning not being done?

    o Has s/he become verbally or physically abusive?

    o If there are pets, are they cared for appropriately?

    o Are there stacks of mail (including unpaid bills) lying around?

    o Based on prior eating habits, is refrigerator and pantry empty or stocked with unusual foods?

    o Are foods left to spoil or kept beyond a “use by” date?

    o Are unnecessary items being ordered through the mail or from television?

    o Is there an increase in panic calls to family, friends or medical professional without apparent need? Are there unnecessary calls to 911?

    o If s/he smokes, are there burn marks on the furniture or carpet?

    o Has s/he quit doing housekeeping chores? Is the house cluttered or messy?
  • bobhaybob
    Here are some more: WARNING SIGNS - For those who live alone

    • Frequent falls or unexplained bruises
    • Sudden weight loss/10lbs. or more in 12 month period
    • Forgetting to take medication
    • Overtaking medication/mistakes/abusing medications
    • Bizarre or deviant behavior
    • Getting lost while driving or walking
    • Extreme suspiciousness
    • Loss of interest in social activities/social isolation
    • Neglecting to pay bills or cash checks
    • A small kitchen or bedroom fire
    • Not eating properly or regularly
    • Cannot safely be left alone during the day
    • Abusing alcohol/medications
    • Unsafe driving
    • Confusion, poor judgment or forgetfulness
    • New balance or mobility problems but refusing to use cane or walker
    • Health complaints or new symptoms but refusing to see the doctor

    One or more of these warning signs means that changes needs to be made.
  • It's looks like a useful list. Thanks for sharing!
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